fix(graph): normalize wing slug at init so topic tunnels fire for hyphenated dirs (#1194)

`init` was recording `topics_by_wing[<raw-dirname>]` while `mempalace.yaml`
got the lower-cased separator-collapsed slug. At mine time the miner
read the slug from the yaml and missed the registry key, so
`_compute_topic_tunnels_for_wing` returned 0 silently for every project
whose folder contained a `-` or a space — the most common shape in the
wild.

Extracted the rule into `config.normalize_wing_name()` and routed both
`cli.cmd_init` (registry write) and `room_detector_local.detect_rooms_local`
(yaml write) through it. Added a regression test in `test_cli.py`
asserting the registry call uses the normalized slug, plus four direct
unit tests for the helper.

Refs #1180.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

mempalace/room_detector_local.py

@@ -303,8 +303,10 @@ def save_config(project_dir: str, project_name: str, rooms: list):
 
 def detect_rooms_local(project_dir: str, yes: bool = False):
     """Main entry point for local setup."""
+    from .config import normalize_wing_name
+
     project_path = Path(project_dir).expanduser().resolve()
-    project_name = project_path.name.lower().replace(" ", "_").replace("-", "_")
+    project_name = normalize_wing_name(project_path.name)
 
     if not project_path.exists():
         print(f"ERROR: Directory not found: {project_dir}")